There are a couple of things that you should not do in our house if you are the disciplined male. Unfortunately I got caught doing three of them in quick succession in the first few days of 2017.
Now you might think that because it is the holiday season and the New Year that one might be let off with a warning, but that is not the case with S, my Mistress and Wife.
Number one, I answered back. We were both rushing to get to work and I snapped at her when she asked me where her car keys were. I had taken her car to a wash and not put the keys back in the rack. Number two, she caught me wanking last Sunday afternoon. She had gone out for a walk in the nearby woods with a friend from the village and I was supposed to be getting a bedroom prepared for decorating next weekend. I got distracted and lay on the bed, letting my imagination go wild and she came in and found me with my pants down and my hand on my cock. Number three, I forgot to pay the December credit card bill and she got the reminder call. I also got that look from her about the call, so I am sure she will take it out on my bottom. So my demerit list, which had gone down to zero just before Christmas, when I got the painful session with the new cane, which I haven't written up in the blog as yet, has now gone up to 36 strokes in less than 6 days.
I hope the year gets off to a rollicking good start for you.
It is indeed an open book - what will I write in this blog in 2017 and what will I get to read about in this spanking community? Here are a few things that my wife and I talked about in bed over Christmas, when we were thinking about our relationship and how it might get livened up in 2017. I made a list to remind us both what was said. 1. Allow spanking to become a part of our daily routine. 2. Let pain give me the strength to take on new tasks 3. Hurt me more than I can bear with the cane 4. Embrace my submission. 5. Learn from my mistakes and ask for punishments
6. Each stroke should teach me a lesson. 7. Allow obedience to instruct my every thought 8. Rekindle the passion in our bed 9. Allow my wife to dominate and inspire me to work harder 10. Tell each other our deepest desires.
If it is a New Year's plan of yours to start a Female Led Relationship, and you want your partner to spank you or you want to find out how to start disciplining your man, but you don't know how to suggest either activity, then take a look at How to spank your man and read what Ms Wilder has to say on the subject and then at The disciplinary wives club
On Christmas Eve, we went for a
drink at a neighbour’s party. We had eaten some supper beforehand because we
didn’t know if there would be much food. My wife ,S, looked gorgeous in a black
trouser outfit with a white Christmas sweater.
We mingled separately and I didn’t
see what she had to drink but, when the time came to go home it was obvious
that she was a bit tipsy.
We said our goodbyes and walked
S went upstairs and I checked the
doors and switched off the Christmas decoration lights
When I got to the bedroom S had
made it to a chair but she was just sitting there in her paty clothes,holding a wooden hairbrush in
ought to give you a Christmas spanking, she said.
No I replied,
I think it’s you who needs a spanking for being drunk.
Well go on
then, spank me, she held out the brush, and afterwards you can kiss my bottom and show me some respect, you naughty slave.
Listening to her I knew
she was over her personal alcohol limit and that I needed to go careful and not rush things, if I wasn’t to
spoil the evening.
I helped S to her feet and led her
to the bathroom. I quickly undressed her whilst she giggled away and when I
knelt down to take off her pop socks tights’ I kissed the triangle of her
sexy knickers. I stood up and
wrapped her up in a dressing gown.
S sat on the loo and flipped open the dressing gown and I stripped off my clothes whilst
looking the other way. She told me to stay facing away whilst she used the
water spray that I had fitted after a trip to a foreign country. ( I remember
that we had both agreed, whilst on holiday in the hot climate, that this was a
great addition to personal hygiene and simple to fit to the home water system.)
Calling me over to her side she pulled
my penis forward and tied her knickers tightly around my scrotum.
There you go slave, all wrapped up nicely for Christmas. She spanked my balls hard with the end of her hand
I've got to do my make up, she remembered
She took a cotton pad and some
remover and did a quick job of taking off most of the make up and mascara. You look beautiful .
Thanks but I bet I look a bit of a wreck, she said, Anyway I am all yours
slave, for one hour.
Taking her hand I led S back to the
bed. I stood her between my knees and pulled her over one knee, locking her
legs with my other legs.
Slowly and not very hard I
started to spank her with the palm of my hand.
She wriggled as I gave her maybe
ten slaps,and I heard her say Huh call that a spanking slave? It’s more like a
Then lets try this. I picked up
the hairbrush and spanked her slowly but hard, ten times on each cheek.
OK, OK that’s enough.
I let go of her and she crawled forward until she was completely on the bed lying on her tummy .She opened her
legs and lifted her hips a little bit. I got onto the bed and then lay down behind her.
Leaning forward I started to
give her bottom cheeks light kisses all over the pink skin. She
moaned her appreciation and wiggled her bottom, inviting more attention. I
pulled apart her cheeks and gazed at the small brown ring then ran one finger up
and down her crack and stroked the skin between her cunt and anus. She wriggled
some more and then I lay on my tummy and pushed my face between her cheeks so
that I could apply my tongue. Slowly I circled round with the tip of my
tongue. I wanted this to last for as long as possible.
Oh you are such a naughty boy.
Yes miss, I mumbled from deep in her
And naughty boys deserve their
punishment don’t they?
Still wrapped up tightly in her knickers my erection was rubbing on the
sheets and I started to hump the mattress.
They get a very hard punishment I
think but they have to kiss ass properly first.
I mumbled agreement and then
pushed my tongue deep inside her ring. There was more moaning and I
set to work, vigorously inserting and retracting my tongue in a fucking motion.
After three or four minutes I
pulled my tongue right out and began licking her again, reaching down her soft perineum to the
entrance of her cunt and then back up to her ring.
S arched her back inviting my
tongue back into her ring and I needed no more prompting to restart the tongue fucking of her anus again. I felt her slide one
hand under her hips and I could sense she was fingering herself at the front. The
more energetically she rubbed herself and her clitoris, the harder I tried to fuck her with the few
centimetres of my tongue.
We were both breathing heavily and
panting and my face was wet with saliva and perspiration.
I felt her body tighten as S neared
a climax and then she went limp. I pulled my face out from between her cheeks
and rolled over on my back. I lay there for awhile with my prick in my hands
and untied the panties which were still firmly secured around
I tried to wank but couldn’t get
As I lay still I could hear the
soft noise of my wife's breathing. She had drifted off to sleep.
I pulled the duvet up from where it had fallen off the end of the bed and covered her. I left her to sleep whilst I tiptoed around the
room tidying up the clothes in the bathroom and getting into my pyjamas.
I was wide awake so I crept
downstairs for a drink and sat and watched a movie for a while. Santa's little helper had brought me exactly what I wanted for Christmas. Now I hoped that there might be little relaxation and time to read a book over the next few days of seasonal good cheer.
Emma was struggling with her new life at college. It was her first semester and she had spent too much time getting to know everyone and enjoying her freedoms and not enough time doing her studies.
She was already behind by one essay and the new essay assignments still kept arriving into her student portal. Her "senior buddy" Katherine, who was now in her third year, had helped Emma settle in and had left her alone. When they had met up in the refectory for a catch up in week 3, Katherine was surprised to find that Emma was nervous and on the verge of tears. "I just can't cope here " she had blurted out. "I had better leave college, it's not for me." "Nonsense," her buddy had responded. "You just need some self-discipline and to start planning out your time." As Emma quietened down her friend had suggested that she help her finish her first essay and then they could plan a timetable together. "I've also got some other suggestions", Katherine added, "but we'll go through those when I see you." The next day Emma turned up at the apartment which Katherine rented with two friends. First year students were on campus but after that they tended to find their own accommodation in town. The other girls were in the sitting room so Katherine took Emma through to her bedroom and they settled down to go through Emma's essay notes. In an hour or so Emma had enough material and structure to her work to feel confident that she could hand in a reasonable first submission. They turned their attention to time tabling and planning work. Katherine had a lot of good ideas on this subject. "It is all about self discipline", she explained. "It doesn't come easy when in the past you have been told exactly what to do by your teachers. "I know. I've never felt quite so alone as I do at college." "Well I'm here to help. In fact there are a few of us who could help you, if you think you need some discipline." As she picked up her hairbrush from the small study desk, Katherine placed a special emphasis on that last word and it seemed to hang in the air between them.
Sorry not to have written much this month. The days just seem to have gone whizzing by, with both work and home projects. There has been a lot of FLR in our household in December, with my wife telling me what to do and not do, but no spankings to speak of. We found time for some oral sex. on her, last weekend, but it was a bit quick and I don't think my wife got a lot out of it. I had the distinct feeling that she was comprising a list of presents which she had still to shop for. Multi-tasking I guess We are away for a few days after the festivities, so perhaps that will present an opportunity for some fun and frolics.
I hope that you all manage to get your hands on something nice this Christmas.
Or to take a few minutes and turn something a little bit red, to match the berries on the holly.
Or even go over someone's lap for a lesson in good behaviour at the neighbour's party.
Anyway, a Merry Christmas to you all and I will wish on a lucky star that this is how I get to spend New Year.